4th February 2007

On Friday 26th January over 40 people joined the monthly Green party sponsored cafe discussion at Star Anise Cafe in Stroud - this month was on 'Image and Identity' and included very powerful and deeply personal accounts from 3 muslim women about their choice and experiences of wearing a veil or scarf.

For many present it was their first time to ask a veiled woman challenging questions about their choice. Many in the discussion groups felt they had gained a much greater understanding and valued the evening immensely.

Meredith Fisk, one of those attending the event reports:

"The coffee house discussion evening kicked off with Jeff Coates, who talked about the white poppies for peace.  He spoke about how white poppies challenge and offend some as they take it as an insult to those who’ve died in war. Jeff explained how the white poppy is a way to demonstrate one’s believe that it is an 'absurdity to fight a war'.

"Mumtaz Kadadia was the next to speak. She was talking about her muslim belief and her decision to wear a veil.  She told us how she gradually moved towards wearing the veil, at first covering her hair, going on to wearing a loose gown, then finally wearing the veil which she has done for the last 8 years. Mumtaz explained that she did this to “do what I can to please her lord”.  She spoke about how some people sometimes shouted insults at her in the street and others accepted her. Explaining “if people see past the veil we’re just the same”.  Her cousin then spoke, saying that she saw Mumtaz get stronger with the wearing of the veil and how when she herself started wearing the veil she felt accepted and no-one made her feel different about wearing it.

"Helen Williams who lives in Stroud was the final speaker.  She converted to Islam 3 years ago after 30 years of study and although chooses to wear the head scarf does not wear a veil. This was then followed by some lively discussion, delicious cakes and coffee from the Anise Star Café.  It was a very enjoyable evening and the next one is one the 23rd February, titled 'What is Real Education?'."